Monday, July 16, 2007

I am of the view that Brands are the cultural anthropologist of the world. Yes they are, they dictate our lifestyles, our likes & dislikes, our passions and everything we do. But sometimes they effectively and sarcastically bring the hidden reality on the forefront.

Some the ads on news paper and newschannels. I'll be sharing more soon.

Wednesday, July 04, 2007

The Woman in your life!!!!!!!!!!!!

Some guys will surely find it not worth reading or rather boring, but if implemented right life can only be a boon for your current partners or to be partners. Give it a thought.

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are; Who is earning almost as much as you do; One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that Gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as Much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who Love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family Name

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen. One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a cook, a
mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, Unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities; Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise.

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like Yours are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important Relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many people understand this...

Well... Give it a thought now!!

Friday, April 20, 2007

And I Died Last Night

And I died last night. Doctor’s said it was fatigue and pressure that caused cardiac arrest.

[I think, I told u about ‘Sims 2’ a game which is a replica of life] Addicted to that game, I created myself in it to every possible detail that is possible. ‘I’ [my name in the game]. She was as ambitious as I am, as talkative, and as less concerned about ‘living’ the life as I am…her life long dream was to be on top of her athletic career. And she was working hard to be that. She started of with $1000 and when she died she had a Ferrari the biggest house in town and a huge inheritance for her family and friends. Success at last, right?

May be wrong, her family’s reaction on her death is the way we react on deleting an unimportant file. Her team that she gave her life to advertised the vacancy the very next day. Her only son didn’t even notice that she is no more and her husband who is so busy with his new perspective changing affair is least bothered.

But, I don’t think its there fault. It was my fault. I never existed in their lives and naturally now that I am not there I shouldn’t live in their memories. Why should they waste all the money and all the status in mourning…they should ‘live the life’. She despite of a loving family didn’t live for a single day. Everyday had a schedule, a hectic routine and an agenda. In anticipation of the big day she missed out on everything in life and how ironic that big day never came.
This is not even God's Fault? No. It was completely her fault, her planning and her vision….! She chose to had a meaningless life and a 'wealthful' hopeless death. I think i am the only one who is missing her.

There is a lesson for all of us in this.

Lets start Living - Ayesha