Wednesday, July 04, 2007

The Woman in your life!!!!!!!!!!!!

Some guys will surely find it not worth reading or rather boring, but if implemented right life can only be a boon for your current partners or to be partners. Give it a thought.

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are; Who is earning almost as much as you do; One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that Gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as Much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who Love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family Name

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen. One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a cook, a
mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, Unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities; Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise.

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like Yours are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important Relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many people understand this...

Well... Give it a thought now!!

1 comment:

W said...

Ofcourse men don't understand becasue they are expected to be cold hearted, not shed a tear and always fulfill the demands of the "family" as they come. Having the perspective from both sides helps, adopting it is what is our prerogative. Men & women both see their fathers and mothers go through the same ordeal and are constantly reliving the memory of injustices while they are kids and teenagers. Its upto parents to make put a lid on their painfull memories and share the beauty of life with their kids. Only then will the best in both genders be developed.